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Friday, 4 April 2014

The Difference Between Men And Women.

Let's say a guy named Fred is attracted to a woman named Martha. He asks her out to a movie; she accepts; they have a pretty good time. A few nights later he asks her out to dinner, and again they enjoy themselves. They continue to see each other regularly, and after a while neither one of them is seeing anybody else.
And then, one evening when they're driving home, a thought occurs to Martha, and, without really thinking, she says it aloud: "Do you realize that, as of tonight, we've been seeing each other for exactly six months?"
And then, there is silence in the car.
To Martha, it seems like a very loud silence. She thinks to herself: I wonder if it bothers him that I said that. Maybe he's been feeling confined by our relationship; maybe he thinks I'm trying to push him into some kind of obligation that he doesn't want, or isn't sure of.
And Fred is thinking: Gosh. Six months.
And Martha is thinking: But, hey, I'm not so sure I want this kind of relationship either. Sometimes I wish I had a little more space, so I'd have time to think about whether I really want us to keep going the way we are, moving steadily towards, I mean, where are we going? Are we just going to keep seeing each other at this level of intimacy? Are we heading toward marriage? Toward children? Toward a lifetime together? Am I ready for that level of commitment? Do I really even know this person?
And Fred is thinking: ...so that means it was...let's see...February when we started going out, which was right after I had the car at the dealer's, which means...lemme check the odometer...Whoa! I am way overdue for an oil change here.

And Martha is thinking: He's upset. I can see it on his face. Maybe I'm reading this completely wrong. Maybe he wants more from our relationship, more intimacy, more commitment; maybe he has sensed - even before I sensed it - that I was feeling some reservations. Yes, I bet that's it. That's why he's so reluctant to say anything about his own feelings. He's afraid of being rejected.
And Fred is thinking: And I'm gonna have them look at the transmission again. I don't care what those morons say, it's still not shifting right. And they better not try to blame it on the cold weather this time. What cold weather? It's 87 degrees out, and this thing is shifting like a garbage truck, and I paid those incompetent thieves $600.

And Martha is thinking: He's angry. And I don't blame him. I'd be angry, too. I feel so guilty, putting him through this, but I can't help the way I feel. I'm just not sure.
And Fred is thinking: They'll probably say it's only a 90-day warranty...scumballs.
And Martha is thinking: Maybe I'm just too idealistic, waiting for a knight to come riding up on his white horse, when I'm sitting right next to a perfectly good person, a person I enjoy being with, a person I truly do care about, a person who seems to truly care about me. A person who is in pain because of my self-centered, schoolgirl romantic fantasy.
And Fred is thinking: Warranty? They want a warranty? I'll give them a warranty. I'll take their warranty and stick it right up their...
"Fred," Martha says aloud.
"What?" says Fred, startled.
"Please don't torture yourself like this," she says, her eyes beginning to brim with tears. "Maybe I should never have...oh dear, I feel so..."(She breaks down, sobbing.)
"What?" says Fred.
"I'm such a fool," Martha sobs. "I mean, I know there's no knight. I really know that. It's silly. There's no knight, and there's no horse."
"There's no horse?" says Fred.
"You think I'm a fool, don't you?" Martha says.
"No!" says Fred, glad to finally know the correct answer.
"It's just that...it's that I...I need some time," Martha says.
(There is a 15-second pause while Fred, thinking as fast as he can, tries to come up with a safe response. Finally he comes up with one that he thinks might work.)
"Yes," he says. (Martha, deeply moved, touches his hand.)
"Oh, Fred, do you really feel that way?" she says.
"What way?" says Fred.
"That way about time," says Martha.
"Oh," says Fred. "Yes." (Martha turns to face him and gazes deeply into his eyes, causing him to become very nervous about what she might say next, especially if it involves a horse. At last she speaks.)
"Thank you, Fred," she says.
"Thank you," says Fred.
Then he takes her home, and she lies on her bed, a conflicted, tortured soul, and weeps until dawn, whereas when Fred gets back to his place, he opens a bag of Doritos, turns on the TV, and immediately becomes deeply involved in a rerun of a college basketball game between two South Dakota junior colleges that he has never heard of. A tiny voice in the far recesses of his mind tells him that something major was going on back there in the car, but he is pretty sure there is no way he would ever understand what, and so he figures it's better if he doesn't think about it.
The next day Martha will call her closest friend, or perhaps two of them, and they will talk about this situation for six straight hours. In painstaking detail, they will analyze everything she said and everything he said, going over it time and time again, exploring every word, expression, and gesture for nuances of meaning, considering every possible ramification.
They will continue to discuss this subject, off and on, for weeks, maybe months, never reaching any definite conclusions, but never getting bored with it either.
Meanwhile, Fred, while playing racquetball one day with a mutual friend of his and Martha's, will pause just before serving, frown, and say: "Norm, did Martha ever own a horse?"

And that's the difference between men and women. 

Wednesday, 12 February 2014

Intuition or Fear? Dare Change!

Do you sometimes feel hesitation? Have you found yourself double-guessing yourself just before this first step to something new and.... a little frightening?

Is this your inner voice warning you of something you might not like and telling you - "don't go there" - or is this your fear whispering in your ear - you are not good enough?

Dare change!



Tuesday, 11 February 2014

"Talk Happiness..." - Optimism - Ella Wheeler Wilcox

Optimism

Talk happiness. The world is sad enough
Without your woes. No path is wholly rough;
Look for the places that are smooth and clear,
And speak of those, to rest the weary ear
Of Earth, so hurt by one continuous strain
Of human discontent and grief and pain.

Talk faith. The world is better off without
Your uttered ignorance and morbid doubt.
If you have faith in God, or man, or self,
Say so. If not, push back upon the shelf
Of silence all your thoughts, till faith shall come;
No one will grieve because your lips are dumb.

Talk health. The dreary, never-changing tale
Of mortal maladies is worn and stale.
You cannot charm, or interest, or please
By harping on that minor chord, disease.
Say you are well, or all is well with you,
And God shall hear your words and make them true. 

Thursday, 9 January 2014

Recepes for Success - Remove toxic people from your life, don't be one and trust your gut in taking the risk!

Here is a lovely video, short, straight to the point about how to be successful as an entrepreneur.

Removing Toxic People From Your Life from Connect: Professional Women's Network

Lisa Stone and her advice

Believe in what you do! Passion is everything!
Success is always a mixed bag, a new frontier

2 things kept me sane:

1. Family - If you have a job that doesn't allow to have enough time to be with the ones you love - leave the job!


Tuesday, 24 December 2013

Recipes For Your Body, Mind & Spirit - Gratitude Granoly - from The Mystic Cookbook - Denise & Meadow Linn

Sounds lovely to me, not sure about how many calories it will be but if you're not afraid to put on too much weight - give it a try!


Monday, 23 December 2013

Wild Mushroom, Ginger and Minter Brussels Pho Show

I liked this recipe and decided to share it with you. Enjoy!


Tuesday, 24 September 2013

A New Way To Get Your Wish Fulfilled - Discover The Amazing Power of 8!


The website is called REAL WISHES GRANTED. You can type your wish in a little box and then you have to return back to the page 8 times on 8 consecutive days. Which is, actually a good idea - you won't forget about it and will focus your attention on it.



Apart from that, the website asks you to repeat your wish every day for 8 times in front of a mirror, with a sheet of paper on which you have written the figure 8. Doing this, I found it to be a very interesting experience - at first i was a bit shy telling the mirror (or My Higher Self, the Universe, God?) - "I want....." but with each repetition, my voice was firmer and I sounded more convincing. There was definitely an energy change there! I haven't done it each and every day because I was not able to do it at exactly 11:11, as per the requirements.

Next, each night you've got to leave your sheet of paper under the direct moonlight. I must admit, i haven't been doing it - because I could hardly see the moon and I was not sure if I should do it anyway,


When you visit the page each day, on some days it offers you a different thought or asks you to do different things.

I found the experience very interesting and I am going to make another wish now. this time I will try to formulate it a little better (the first one was a bit too long and too detailed to remember and repeat comfortably) and follow all the instructions this time.

Good luck!

No wish is impossible. Everything under the sun can and eventually will happen. If your wish is sincere, it is highly likely that your wish will come true.





Align the Power of 8 to your wish in the following 8 ways: 

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1. The Power of 8 Days 

Visit your Wish Page at least once a day for 8 days in a row.


2. Moonlight 

Write or print out the Number 8 on a piece of paper and carry it on or near you at all times.
Allow direct Moonlight to shine upon it every night for 30 seconds.
Indirect Moonlight will penetrate clouds - if it's cloudy, expose it every night for a full minute.

If there is little or no Moonlight where you live, hold the paper to the sky for 2 minutes. 



3. 11:11 and the Mirror

At the time 11:11, hold your 8 paper up to a mirror and look into the mirror at the reflected 8 as you
say your wish 8 times. Do this for 8 days in a row. If you skip a day, begin again. 



4. Believe 

Believe. 
This is the most difficult step.
This step requires a willingness to try something new; 
a willingness to think in a new way. 
If you're doing this step correctly, you will notice an immediate difference. 
It's never too late to complete this step.


5. The Power of Mass Consciousness 

The more awareness you bring to this website, the more energy you bring into your wish.









6. The Living Power of Images

Paste the code below into blogs, forums and comments of online community websites.
The more people who see this image, the more energy you will bring into your wish.
Doing so will make this image appear. 
code:
Free Protection Spells

This step does not work on Facebook or Twitter 
because they render the code as text (not as an image).


7. The Power Within

While visiting your wish page, visualize yourself taking action to achieve your wish.
You will need to open your mind and be willing to learn and do something new. 


8. The Power of Letting Go 

~ Complete this task even if your wish has already come true ~ 

The Universe is a paradox.
Contradictory and opposite forces make up the whole.

After you have successfully visited your Wish Page for 8 days in a row,
you must give life to your wish by creating a paradox.
Here's how:
You must think no more about your wish. 

~ Let It Go ~ 

Letting go of your wish creates the paradox with a contradictory act.
This is the same act that gave birth to the Universe.

The very moment you truly let go and forget,
your wish will be born and it will come to you. 

This final task uses the paper with the 8 written on it: 
Find a recycling bin and hold the paper over it.

As you do this,
feel yourself let go of your wish
as you let go of the paper.

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